So I think I've finally made a decision about my life. My last day of work is going to be June 3rd. I haven't told my boss yet since I think it's too soon, maybe sometime in May. I wanted to give myself a little more time to earn just a bit more money, so I'm not diving into my savings right away once I'm jobless. My fiance and I are going on a trip to Las Vegas on the 5th so I figured that was a good time to leave. So I'll quit my job and immediately go on vacation! And no, we're not getting married there...It's a really, really long time coming. When I went back to work after my staycation and still felt burnt out and miserable, I knew I really couldn't do it anymore. My job is sucking the life out of me. If I'm in a position where I can afford to give it up, then I really think I have to.
I still want to finish my second draft before I leave my job, which honestly, is probably the main reason I'm giving myself almost two more months. I have a lot of planning to do, but I'm really looking forward to being able to focus on my writing and looking for a job that is something I actually want to do.
It sounds like you're doing the right thing for you. I bet it feels good to have made the decision, doesn't it? Good luck!
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I completely understand your decision. I too left a job that was rough on me, and while it wasn't without its downsides, it worked out well in the end!
ReplyDeleteThat is such a difficult decision. I hope you are able to find work that is more fulfilling and not a drain. I also worked somewhere that I was not valued, and my next job was technically a step down, but I didn't care. I all but told them in the interview I just wanted to work where people were nice to me. Sometimes it's that simple. And it was a great move, it's a great company that values me.
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You're really lucky to afford to quit their job. Not many people can do that. Enjoy your vacation in Las Vegas and best of luck to you with your second draft! :)
ReplyDeleteSounds like your job is a dead-end relationship. I'm glad to hear you're retaking control and pursuing writing with a gusto. I bet once you quit, you'll feel great and really start to soar.
ReplyDeleteThat is great. Congrats. Perhaps you'll win some money in vegas and can concentrate only on your writing. haha.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on making such an important decision. Hope something wonderful is waiting for you and your manuscripit! Best wishes from Albuquerque--new follower here, found you through the A-Z list!
ReplyDeleteGood for you. A miserable job is a total drain on the system. I hope you find a much more fulfilling one. Good luck with getting your draft finished and enjoy your vacation.
ReplyDeletewow - that's a big change! i'm glad you made a firm decision and wish you luck! it will be awesome to have more time to work on the MS and hopefully new doors will open for you, too!
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My husband is getting ready to do the same thing for the same reason, his job (mainly his boss actually) is sucking the life out of him and he doesn't want to waste his life anymore on some thing, or some one who doesn't appreciate him. If you can do it, go for it! I wish you much peace and happiness in your coming adventure.
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